As part of the W�rzburg KiTa-CoV study series, SARS-CoV-2 pandemic-related attitudes/concerns of parents of preschool children attending day care centres were surveyed over a 21-month period. We expected associations between these parental attitudes/concerns and their change over the course of the pandemic, on the one hand, and the SARS-CoV-2 infection status of the children, on the other. Parents of children from nine day-care centres who completed a survey on pandemic-related attitudes/concerns in October 2020, July 2021 and July 2022, were included in the analysis. In July 2022, the children's infection status was determined by measuring nucleocapsid protein antibodies (N-AK) and, in the case of N-AK negative, unvaccinated children, the measurement results of spike protein antibodies (S-AK) against SARS-CoV-2 as indicators of previous infection were also taken into account. Changes in parental attitudes/concerns were analysed using trend tests, and their significance in predicting the child's infection status was analysed using multiple binomial regression analyses. Data were available from parents of 159 children (mean age 3.2 years). The overall group of parents showed an increasingly relaxed attitude towards the pandemic over the study period, although the parents' concerns towards a possible infection of their own increased. The infection status of the children could not be predicted from the initial attitudes and concerns of the parents. However, the subgroup of parents with an uninfected child tended to have a higher level of concerns over the course of the pandemic than the parents with an infected child and did not show the same increasing composure towards the pandemic event. The parents' increasing composure is understandable in the context of the reduced virulence of the virus variants prevailing over time, the increasing availability of testing strategies and vaccinations, and the withdrawal of pandemic-related restrictions. In addition, the mildness of most children's infections may have contributed to their parents' sense of security. The seemingly contradictory increase in parental concerns about infection may be related to the strong increase in the incidence due to omicron variant infections in the population since January 2022. It is possible that the higher level of concerns among parents of uninfected children had a protective effect behaviourally.